A trial court generally cannot grant relief that was not requested by the parties in a Texas family law matter. Relief must generally conform to the pleadings, though in some cases an issue may be tried by consent of the parties. A mother recently challenged a trial court’s order changing the children’s name to something different from what she had requested when the father had not participated in the proceedings.
Mother Petitions for Name Change
In January 2022, the trial court adjudicated parentage and named the mother sole managing conservator of the children, who were born in 2019 and 2020. The children’s last names were structured as “[father’s last name] [mother’s last name].” The mother then petitioned to remove the father’s last name from the children’s last names, alleging he had not been in their lives or supported them and that the change was in the children’s best interest.
The trial court held two hearings, but the father failed to answer or participate. The mother testified that she wanted to change the children’s name to avoid inconvenience and confusion. She said that she had extended family in the area who shared her last name and that she did not plan to change her name. She also testified the change was in the best interest of the children and that she had not requested it to try to alienate the father. The birth certificates showing the children’s names were admitted as evidence.